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What are you waiting for, exactly?

By Christa Terry

I’m bummed out today because I just found out that I recently received my last ever issue of Blueprint . Apparently, I’ll be receiving Martha Stewart Living in its place. Waaaah. Why does this bum me out so? Because Blueprint was one of the few mags I could rely on to show me stuff for the home I could actually afford. Sure, it’s fun to browse through House Beautiful with it’s $10,000 couches and $800 lamps, but I get a little discouraged when I can’t afford to implement any of the ideas!

One of the best ideas I ever came across in Blueprint was easy, free, and pointedly logical. Summing it up, the tip read: “Why are you keeping your “good” stuff hidden away? Put it out around your home where you can enjoy it!” I can admit that I’m guilty of having both everyday stuff and nice stuff. While keeping some stuff hidden away, like the good towels for instance, makes sense because you want them to look new when guests come over, there’s plenty of stuff that can take a little wear and tear without changing much.

Too pretty to stay locked away

So what did I keep hidden away until fairly recently? A beautiful full set of Dirilyte flatware in the Empress pattern, for one. What was the point of owning it if I was still using a bunch of mismatched, hand-me-down forks, knives, and spoons? Now my kitchen sparkles every single day. There was also a beautiful khokhloma table that my grandparents brought back with them on a long ago trip to Russia — I found a nice spot for that in my already red office.

The point is, life is short, so we really ought to live fabulously whenever possible. If you entertain a ton, then I suppose there’s no reason not to switch out the workhorses for the show horses because both will see plenty of use. But if you’re like me and prefer that parties take place in other people’s abodes, there’s no reason to keep all that good stuff hidden away. I’d wager that there is at least one beautiful thing — a wine bucket, a candy dish, a footstool, a tablecloth, or a pitcher — that you’re saving for some future day when the right company happens to stop by.

What I’m trying to say is that YOU are the right company. You deserve to eat your microwave burrito off of fine china with the most beautiful of silverware. No one need know that the coffee in your silver coffee pot was made with instant coffee crystals. Similarly, why nibble pricey French pastries off of plates you bought at the Wal*Mart if you have something better right there in your kitchen cabinet? Why put the aromatic teas you love so much in any old pot when your gram’s silver is languishing in the cupboard?

Bust it out! Use it! Trust me when I say your home will be all the more beautiful because of it.









5 Responses to “What are you waiting for, exactly?”




  1. Jennie Says:

    Amen sister! People don’t treat themselves as nicely as they should! Half of my clients are so concerned about resale that they forget who lives in the house NOW!! Treat yourself as the most VIP house guest ever…




  2. Judy Says:

    I am waiting for my teenagers to leave home and go to college, that’s what I’m waiting for! I used to have my sterling out to be used, and they used it all right; most of it has now vanished. I’m keeping everything nice put away until I can be sure whoever uses it doesn’t toss it into the trash instead of taking the trouble to put it into the sink.

    On the whole, I agree with you, things are there to be used, though.




  3. buttercup Says:

    I agree. It would so peaceful to sit and have tea with you over the nice wooden table you describe.




  4. Toby Wollin Says:

    With you all the way here – and I’d like to add – if you have linens that you’ve been handed down, use them. Yes, you have to wash and iron them (though I happen to like the smell of ironing linen), but along with the nice china upgrading your burrito – a nifty table cloth just upgrades the whole experience nicely. There is no faster way I know of to get people from eating in front of the tv than to set the table. No candles necessary. Once they see the table “set”, they know that something special is going to happen. It may be just the two of you, facing one another over the microwaved food, but at least you are facing each other and looking into one another’s eyes…not facing the tv set…




  5. Never teh Bride Says:

    Judy: I guess that is something to wait for!

    Toby Wollin: Lately The Beard and I have been eating at the table more (instead of in front of the television) and we both rather like the change. I haven’t set the the table in any meanigful way (yet) but the day is fast approaching when I will.












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